Enough. You can’t put it off anymore. You can’t afford another missed opportunity. Another squabble. Another cost overrun. Or another mistake that you have to fix.

No wonder they call it a “courageous conversation.” You hoped that your team member, partner or customer would see the problem and correct it him/herself – and that you wouldn’t need to intervene. But you can’t put if off anymore.

How do you start? How do you overcome fear? How do you keep a courageous conversation on track and out of risk-averse compromises? How do you ennoble and PowerUP the dialogue to Level 4 or 5, so improvements stick and you generate good will? What if your antagonist falls into fight-or-flight retaliation and holds onto “not-my-fault” victim thinking?

That’s where we come in. Because uplifting ennobling interventions PowerUP the best outcomes when you have a plan – and a way to keep emotions and defensiveness at check, even if things don’t go according to plan. The 5As – AROUSE, AIM, ASK, ALIGN, ADHERE – gives you a roadmap to keep the conversation on track, heading to a good outcome.

Click here for advice >> when a courageous conversation is needed to…

• Say, “We need even more – faster – better performance”

• Lift someone past rivalries, politics and negative emotions

• Tell a customer that you need to increase the budget, scope of work or their co-operation

• Wrestle down risk factors or technical hurdles and get them solved

• Present turbulent VUCA business realities as an opportunity and a call to action that keeps top talent committed and engaged

• Insist on higher safety, quality, UX and ethical standards

• Bring diverse personalities, cultures, functions or interests together

• Get someone to listen to feedback that could save their career or keep the enterprise from derailing

• Manage big or fragile egos

• Use impatience and frustration to PowerUP creativity and a sense of accomplishment

A quick consultation can show you how to approach courageous conversations like these —with the 5A Make Courage Contagious formula that lifts your antagonist out of risk-averse traps. And PowersUP the best possible win/win/win solutions.